So first things, limit the topics to one question per topic. Too many questions in one topic can get too crowded and its best to keep it one question per thread.
Before you start typing up a thread needing help, make sure people with understand it and knows what will be asking before they click on to the thread. Think in your head, will people understand what I'm trying to get help with before they click on it?
Once you have made your title as clear as possible, make sure you explain your problem as clear as you did with the title. Making posts that have make little to no sense will not help and most people will not be able to help. Remember help will be given if it can be read.
The last step is to wait until someone replies to it saying what you can do to help fix your problem with your server or Pyspades. More then one answer will be given so be sure to read them all to see if the other ones can help you with your problem.
REMEMBER: People are not obliged to help you, they may do as they want and do not under any circumstances have to help you.